Skip to main content

Where Are Your (Spiritual) Manners?

2 Timothy 3:16-17.  All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.


This is the last letter Paul wrote to Timothy. Paul wants Timothy to know how important God’s Word is to His people. Scripture is historically a chronicle of God's activity in His people's lives--recording the commands, promises, blessings, and curses. God's Word can be trusted; even in those places where we are unsure, God will testify to us by His Spirit. 

Jesus was God’s Word embodied so all of Jesus’ teachings should be considered as “Scripture.” (cf. 1 Cor. 2:12–13; cf. Heb. 3:7; Acts 1:16; 2 Pet. 1:21).

There are building blocks in all areas of life—things that have to be done in order. You have to accomplish first grade before you advance to second and so on. What other areas besides education must be built upon in levels?

God’s plan for growing spiritually is like His plan for growing naturally. When you follow God’s plan you grow healthy and fruitful. Paul begins with the Word of God and says for your health (mind, body, spirit) you need a four-fold work:  teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness. This is the order: Grounded in the Word first, thoroughly equipped next, then good works for Christ and the kingdom follow.

God’s word is “profitable” meaning it brings about a benefit. This is good to know!

TEACHING: Scripture instructs us by means of its content, which is Truth and Truth leads to right thinking (cf. Romans 15:4). Right thinking is a benefit; teaching the truth and being taught the truth is profitable.

REBUKING: When there is error, it needs to be pointed out; the facts are gone back over and re-proved; when wrongs are taught on or preached about it brings sweet conviction! The Word of God brings to the heart of its listeners the truth to bear upon its patterns of thinking that are out of line; right behavior based on God's truth will bring Shalom and benefits us in many ways.

CORRECTING: This is setting the rebuked person on the  right path or putting thoughts in correct order for processing. When  path is marked out, the believer can move forward keeping faith and staying on track toward his or her goal. Correcting means “returning something to an upright position or right status.” Confession and forgiveness are needed as well as moving toward complete restoration; a blending of right thinking with right behavior in second chances benefits us all when we do it God’s way!

TRAINING IN RIGHTEOUSNESS: Learning spiritually good manners takes practice as we learn the right conduct toward others that is necessary. This expression is used for the training of children’s behavior in how to be "right” with others. God’s Word provides what is right and benefits the conscience, the will, the heart of faith (your trust muscle), and your deepest affections as they are all brought into line with the Truth and Person of Jesus Christ. 

Studying God’s Word is like cultivating the soil around the vegetables in your garden: It keeps your spirit and heart feasting on the truth-fertilizer of God. When you open yourself to God’s Word you are honoring God—and God will honor you in your doing so. The Word washes you as you read it (Eph 5:26), and works within your physical brain bringing health to it that in turns brings health to the rest of your body (Prov 16:24; 3:7-8).

For the Christian, both creed and conduct are grounded in the Word. Scripture directs both our beliefs and our behavior, our theology and our ethics. Scripture gives us not only God’s Yes but also His No. Both are given for our benefit. The end result of Scripture is that you may be thoroughly equipped for every good work--a benefit both to you and to others around you. This is the sowing of true Life!

You would probably say you read the Bible enough. Some might say they don’t (read it enough). What are some steps you can take to (1) take the necessary time to read each day, (2) make your Bible reading time more meaningful?


How much time are giving the reading and study of God’s Word? Can you be accountable to this group to do better?

How are your spiritual manners? Have you been increasing in grace with others?
When you flub up, do you immediately ask for forgiveness? How is your behavior doing with things marked out against it as in the list found in Galatians 5:19-21 (sexual misconduct, impure thoughts, lack of self-control in any area of life; idolatry where things mean more than people, or we treat people as if we can control them as we do things = witchcraft; behaving in ways that cause hatred, discord, or jealousy; provoking others to fits of rage or falling into them ourselves; concerned only with ourselves and what we can get = selfish ambition; always being right or dividing groups which is dissensions; creating factions between people and viewing others with eyes that envy; given to addictions like drunkenness, lack of self-control in spending or any of our appetites; these things or anything like them describes the lifestyle of those who will not inherit the kingdom of God! 

Popular posts from this blog

I Wish We'd All Been ... Left Behind

  Perhaps you have heard the group DC Talk sing the remake of Larry Norman’s’ song, “I Wish We’d All Been Ready”? There is something tragically deceptive about the lyrics though. As we sing along, we find ourselves participating in a couple instances where we wish we had been ready to be taken instead of left behind. But that is not how Jesus tells his side of the story. The words are inspired by Matthew 24:40-41. But let’s look more closely, shall we? MATTHEW 24:37 As it was in the days of Noah, so it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. 38 For in the days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day Noah entered the ark; 39 and they knew nothing about what would happen until the flood came and took them all away . That is how it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. 40 Two men will be in the field; one will be taken and the other left. 41 Two women will be grinding with a hand mill; one will be taken and the other left. ...

IN ESSENTIALS, UNITY

I just had a board meeting where I went over a study on the word "unity" and "divisions." The question that immediately came up was, "Well, Christians don't have to agree on everything...right?" My response went something like this, "Well, wouldn't we want to?" It hit the fan like a lead balloon, which is not at all what I had expected. I thought all of the other board members would be shouting, "Yes!" and giving me high-fives and chest bumps. Well, maybe not chest bumps at this age.  There were some other ideas, thoughts and opinions expressed, and I was like, "We just went over this study of like 25 verses that state we are to be unified and have no divisions among us. Why don't you get it?" Seems like I was the one who actually didn't get it. It wasn't that I thought my interpretations were wrong, the weren't. The question centered around their application. "How in the world are we to agree on e...

Should Christians Be Taught To Fight?

Can we ever truly just fight for something without having to fight against something else? Should (good) Christians fight against anything? What about religiosity? My first reaction to "The Soul of Hip Hop", by D W Hodge was how I was quite taken with his topic, methodological approach to communicating it, his passion and his testimony—who doesn’t like a good story? But I was left with some questions in the end and concerns that have left me wondering if this is a safe book for young and influential youth ministers to read? One could be persuaded to give in to a vigilantism or “we vs. them” stance in the Church. Not that we don’t have that already at times. Times are changing quickly. There is a tide that is upon us and an unidentified undertow that seems to be slowly eroding a foundation—whether it is the good parts of the foundation or the bad has to be discerned. I found myself routing and cheering when Hodge used such terminology as “the domesticating of converts” bein...

Family Time Videos